I don’t think people understand how damaging and harmful it is to completely ignore and not want to acknowledge or even take responsibility for how their behaviour affects others. If someone is telling you that you’ve hurt them or how you make them feel in general, just fucking listen and accept that this is how you are making someone feel, regardless of if you are aware or if it’s intentional or not, but don’t deny them their right to fucking feel and express by denouncing them.
